I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings
I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings
I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings
I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings
I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings
I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings
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I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings
I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings

I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings

Does your heart sink every time you see your teen daughter weighed down by anxiety and stress? Are you eager to find a way to help her build unshakable self-esteem and self-confidence?

Picture this: Your daughter wakes up, her eyes sparkling with excitement for the day ahead, her face radiant with the confidence you've always dreamed she'd have.

Imagine a Future Where Your Daughter:

  • ✅ Stops overthinking and enjoy her life now.
  • ✅ Exudes peace and radiates confidence.
  • ✅ Tackles life's hurdles with a courage.
  • ✅ Navigates life's ups and downs with a positive attitude.
  • ✅ Steps boldly into a life of joy and endless possibilities.

This isn't just a book; it's her personal guide to a life of happiness and success.

Secure your copy today and give her the life-changing gift of confidence for life!

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How many times have you been told by well-meaning parents, adults, or even your friends that you should just stop thinking or feeling a certain way? They tell you that the problems you have are all in your head. They tell you to stop making a big deal out of things, that you’re too sensitive, and there is no reason to be nervous or anxious.

And yet, you are. You don’t know what to think or how to feel. You feel tense and nervous. Others seem to have it so easy. But for you, life is difficult and so unfair!

Your situation may seem hopeless; perhaps you have even concluded that you were just “born that way” and there is nothing you can do to change.

But what if you are wrong about that conclusion? What if there was a way for you to create the changes you desperately desire? What if I can teach you how to take control of your mind, thoughts, and feelings? Would you want to learn how to do that for yourself?

The power of the human mind is incredible. It is capable of creating horrible life experiences, and it is capable of creating happy, successful ones, too. It might not feel that way right now, but you do get to choose which life experiences you’ll have.

Once you learn easy, yet highly effective ways to take charge of your mind, you’ll find that you have the power to create the life you want and deserve. The power to create permanent, positive change is available to you no matter what you are struggling with.

Stop wasting your energy and time on those old, useless emotions and thoughts. Today is the day to change your life experiences.

This book will show you how to:

  • Challenge your old negative belief patterns.
  • Stop unhealthy thoughts and feelings.
  • Create positive life experiences for yourself.
  • Stay calm and in control in any situation.
  • Unleash the power of your mind to create the life you want and deserve.

Everyone’s journey to happiness begins with the belief that happiness is possible. Even if your personal experiences have led you to believe you will have a difficult life filled with stress, anxiety, and unhappiness, I will show you that you do have other options. You can learn to believe that happiness is possible for you.

In this book, I will show you how to take charge of your mind to overcome your obstacles and struggles. I will show you simple, yet powerful principles to strengthen your self-belief that leads to a solid foundation for happiness and success.

The next time somebody asks you, “Why can’t you just control yourself?” you can smile and thank them for the gentle reminder and instantly take control of your thoughts and feelings again.

You are the key to your success and happiness.

Close your eyes and imagine for a moment how wonderful your life will be once you fully understand how to control your thoughts, feelings, and actions. If you are ready to make that dream-life your reality, I encourage you to read this book with an open mind and a willingness to try something new.

Get ready to be amazed at how quickly you can take charge of your life!

In today’s world of social media distortion, teens face their toughest challenges ever.

And the battlefield is in their mind.    

Are today's teens prepared for the fight?    

Whether a teen succeeds depends on her beliefs about herself and the world around her.    

But where do these beliefs come from?    

How do you help her break free from her negative beliefs and poor self-image?    

Introducing I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me! This multi-award-winning book helps teen girls understand how their minds work and how their beliefs affect their experiences.

Over the past 20 years Jacqui Letran has taught thousands of teens how to manage their thoughts and feelings by helping them understand just how much power they have to manage their attitude and emotions.    

In this book Jacqui shares the same insights and exact lessons she teaches during her one-on-one sessions and workshops.      

This book teaches teen girls to: 

  • Understand how their minds work 
  • Change negative beliefs
  • Replace unhealthy thoughts with positive ones  
  • Improve self-esteem and self-confidence 
  • Use the power of the mind to create success and happiness 
  • Enjoy positive life experiences and much, much more!
Teen girls love this book because the examples are real and will give her the tools she needs to win the battle with her mind.


Publisher A Healed Mind
Language English
Reading Age 13+
Page Count 132
Product Weight

Paperback 5.6 ounces
Hardcover: 10.2 ounces
Paperback Bundle 12.2 ounces

Product Dimensions 5.5 x 0.3 x 8.5 inches
Paperback ISBN 978-0997624403
Hardcover ISBN 978-1952719073

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Customer Reviews

Based on 57 reviews
Suzanne Finocchiaro
Well written and good tools

This book had a lot of great insight and I felt there was a lot of helpful tools. With so many eating disorders in our society and so much pressure on our teenagers to look a certain way, I wish the section on trying to teach how to handle a large goal didn’t focus on losing weight as the example. The concepts are great, but a different example would be more appropriate for everyone.

Thank you so much for your review and sharing your thoughts about the weight loss example. I will definitely keep that in mind for future revisions.

Alicia Nighman

I would, but MY DAMN MIND won't let me: Understand Your Thoughts & Feelings

Tricia Andrus Guillory
Love the book

This book is amazing!! I’m an adult an I learned so much. Very satisfied.

K Adkins’s
Really Helpful

I bought your book for my daughter and she really found if helpful! I appreciate the way you wrote it as well: was very easy for her to pick up and read and the writing pages are huge plus too! Thank you so much!!

Shannon Strother
Great read

It is a great book especially for a child like mine with Adhd, anxiety disorder and depression disorder. I wish I would have found it a little bit sooner. She really liked it and it gave her more of an understanding of what her teenage mind and body are going through. Thank you